Read on what i ve found through research is that trust is built in very small moments which i call sliding door moments.
Brene brown sliding doors.
Dr gottman says in any interaction there is a possibility of connection with your partner or turning away from your partner in the following clip dr gottman shares an example of a sliding door moment in his relationship with his wife.
This speech was originally delivered at ucla s royce hall in 2015.
Oh it just feels like an incredible understatement to say how grateful i am to be here with all of you.
Okay you read the title of this post and thought what is a sliding door moment and why are my vows such a moment good question.
Brene brown s research describes how she sees the paradox of trust.
Trust is something that i battle with and i know many of you do too.
Marble jar friends sliding door moments.
Every time we choose courage we make everyone around us a little better and the world a little braver.
Gottman calls these the sliding door moments.
I feel like i have a relationship with many of you on social media and you.
Brené brown is a professor and social scientist.
Brown provides the following as examples of small ways that trust is built.
Whether the behavior seeks to be outright cruel manipulative and spiteful or simply is an innocent omission of information a forgetful moment or just.
We must risk vulnerability in order to build trust and simultaneously it is the building of trust that inspires vulnerability.
To choose not to connect when the opportunity is there is a betrayal.
These moments are called sliding door moments after the movie sliding doors.
Remembering the names of family members.